A little advice on video…
I think video is an amazing way to document your wedding! However, the way I shoot is extremely relaxed. I’m not posing you the entire time, I’m not telling you exactly where your pinky finger should be, and I’m not telling your mom to re-zip your dress just so I can get a different angle. Often, videographers are going for a cinematic feel, and therefore instruct on poses a lot more than I do. This is totally fine, but it can feel forced. No matter who you hire, I recommend having a chat with your videographer about stepping back and allowing moments to happen vs. force them if that’s something important to you.